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    Ian's directed CBN regional offices in Southern and East Africa for five years. He loves building teams, telling stories and working in authentic Kingdom partnerships. Ian lives near the sea in Cape Town, South Africa with his wife, three kids, and their brown poodle.

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One morning a few years back I was dropping Liya, my then-4-year-old daughter, off at her preschool. The director gently scolded me by telling my daughter to “remind her father to give her a jacket on such a cold day.” I humbly nodded to show that her parenting coaching had been well-received. Liya spoke up: “I actually have two fathers! My daddy here who forgot my jacket… and my Father in heaven.” As I hugged her goodbye and drove away that day, I felt such a sense of gratitude — and freedom — that my little girl already got it. She already lived in the life-changing truth that she has two dads: an imperfect, temporary human one and a perfect, everlasting one.

“Our Father” — the familiar but crucial opening phrase of the prayer Jesus taught us to pray, and the way Jesus usually addressed God Himself (except when He was temporarily separated by our sin on the cross). I think these words begin this model prayer because they help to put us into alignment with the truth. Uttering them reminds us we are God’s children and tells the world that we are not just religious nuts who believe in some distant deity. Without “our Father,” He remains a distant, fearsome God who must be either placated, run from, or ignored. Our prayers to Him can become fear-filled, superstitious, cold and begging. Without “our Father,” we cannot live in the fullness and freedom reserved for the sons and daughters of the living God.

No matter how long we’ve been Christians, God can’t fully be Father to us until we fully grab on to what it is to be His sons and daughters — children who are intimate and trusting and obedient and bursting with honoring affection for their Daddy. You see, I don’t think God’s forgiveness is meant to be the goal of our faith. It is just the crucial entry point for us into a powerfully restored relationship with Him. As it was in the Beginning. But we need to believe in, have faith in and live in the reality of that relationship! He died so that we can be co-heirs and learn to live in sonship. And the beautiful verse below reminds us how; it is by His Spirit that we are able to cry “Abba! Father.” Daddy.

For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” Romans 8:15 (ESVUK)

Liya is now 9 years old. I can hear her singing joyfully outside as I write this. She and my twin boys continue to teach me every day what it is to be a dad — as my Father continues to teach me, by His Spirit, what it is to be a son.

“I’m no longer a slave to fear, I am a child of God.” May this be your declaration and your absolute reality as you read this now—wherever you are, however old you are, and whatever is going on in your life.


Scripture is quoted from the ESVUK® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version Anglicised®). ESV® Text Edition: 2016. Copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. The ESV® text has been reproduced in cooperation with and by permission of Good News Publishers. Unauthorized reproduction of this publication is prohibited. All rights reserved.

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