Bring It On-Line: Cheating Spouse

My wife cheated on me 25 years ago. I was an Air Traffic Controller working many overnight shifts. She had this affair for 2 years. The only reason she stayed with me was military law preventing her from continuing her affair with another military member. I tried to get her to go with me to counseling. She refused. To this day I ask her to go with me for counseling. She continues to flirt. Our sexual relationship is non-existent. God says forgive, maybe I haven't. I've been wondering…when our Lord returns and the Rapture happens, will the children be taken then also? If so, what age would the cut-off be? Would it be on an individual basis based on their ability to understand right from wrong? Thanks. How do we know what types of television shows God would approve of us watching? Every story or plot out there has some type of sin. Even shows for children have instances where kids tell lies to their parents. I want to watch TV without feeling guilty, but even cartoons aren't always perfectly holy. Could you please provide me some clarity on this issue?